It seems Nashik is at full on verge of celebrating the Day of love- the VALENTINES DAY ! Nashikites this Valentines Go beyond Love. Do something unusual and deliberating. If that special someone doesn’t meet your expectations today, remember: It’s just another day to offer what we can offer 356 days a year, 24/7. If it has a charge on you, share your heart unconditionally, and make it a fun day.
Valentine’s Day is such a set up. For one, it is set up with so many expectations for the people who don’t have that one and only special person, to feel excluded from what they assume (it is an assumption) other people have with a special person in their life. The people who have someone special are filled with expectations of what their special person will get them as a gift, where will they take them for dinner, should they send them flowers. They want to figure out what they need to give the other person to remind them how special they are on this day.
Dear friends, let’s end this insanity today. Valentine’s Day is just another day to celebrate love. Love comes in many forms, shapes, and opportunities 365 days a year, 24/7. Make celebration of love and bring your heart to everything you do. Unleash your heart. Make this Valentine’s Day an opportunity to unleash your heart, and make it a little bigger. If you are in an elevator with strangers, smile at them. If you have an extra chocolate in your handbag, pass it on. If you go to the supermarket, bring the cashier a rose. If you are going to the bank, bring the teller a box of chocolates. If you are on the bus, stand up and sing your favorite love song. Do something to break the pattern that might be cycling inside of you, that may be saying, “Woe is me, I don’t have anyone special to tell me how wonderful I am and to feel loved and cherished on Valentine’s Day.”
Romance is a wonderful thing. It is an opportunity to bring the sweetness and the tenderness of your heart to a more present place. A beautiful phrase states the love, “Treat yourself as if you were someone inexpressibly dear to you.” I think this sweetness and romance starts with ourselves. So this Valentines day, go buy yourself your favorite flowers, create romantic moments for yourself, and open to a more sharing, loving, and joyful way in everything you do.
There must had come a phase in people’s life where they would get caught up and feel this pit in their stomach, because someone special wasn’t there to take them to dinner and tell them how much they are loved. But now life is different, in this impassioned mission, spreading the Unbinding Love message, because we should realize that if we place this condition, and I we would only spread love . So let’s start with the person in the mirror: Give to yourself with such generosity, and if you need a special little something for yourself, ask someone for something you want, and then you can both receive. Create a joyful day for yourself and those around you.
Keep your heart open no matter what — that’s the greatest gift we have as human beings. When things go the way you want them to, or when they don’t, we always have the choice of staying open or shutting down. When we are open, we have the opportunity to create what we want. Because when we are open, our perception is open. So as they say, what are you going to give up for lent? Let’s give up any feelings of sorriness for ourselves, feelings of what life should have given us. Let’s give up any feelings of lack, and know that the most beautiful gift we have as human beings is our heart — it is always available to us. If we listen, nurture, and learn to share it, our hearts will grow a tremendous capacity for love.
So Nashikkites this Valentine’s Day, open the gate, and let the water that is being held by the dam flow. Bring your heart to work, to your family, and to those around — and sing the song of your heart.
LOVE YOURSELF and SHARE LOVE !!!